Leading an ad agency for
30-plus years you have multiple opportunities to demonstrate to other
businesses what you can do for them. It is a challenging life, as you must
demonstrate in less than an hour how you can add value.
If they like you
and the value you bring to the party, you are hired. If you don't click
that day, you lose. Big money is often at stake. Win an account
that spends $500,000 to $1,000,000 a year, keep them for seven years, and you
are talking some serious money.
Just before the team was about to enter the presentation "arena" I would invariably ask them, "How much are these guys spending with us now?" I of course knew the answer was zero. Newer members of the team, who hadn't heard my routine, occasionally looked at me like "Geez, this guy is leading us into the battle and he's babbling incoherently." Then I explained that my question was to illustrate we had nothing to lose, as we were surviving just fine, thank you, without them.
It was my way of trying to
bring some confidence and swagger to our side of the playing field, which
needed some confidence and swagger because it wasn't like "we" were
interviewing five breweries to see which brewery we were going to bless with
our marketing wisdom. It never worked that way. Generally they were interviewing 5 to 10 agencies to determine the chosen one.
My message was that we could lose and life will go
on pretty much like it is now. I had a dear friend who was fond of
saying, "An agency is the only job in the world where you can be fired and
come to work the next day."
Why does swagger
matter? Because people like to do business with confident people.
Surround yourself with confident people and you will become more
confident. Believe that you can
accomplish something great and your chances of success increase dramatically.
And how does a great leader
develop long-term swagger in his or her organization? By celebrating your
failures as a positive step in the learning process and telling similar company
stories where your greatest successes almost always followed your biggest
failures. It eliminates fear and emboldens your team to think big and take
action.
I refined my confidence and
swagger as a younger, single man. I observed, through diligent and
frequent testing, that women were attracted to confident men and generally ran
from anyone who resembled a drooling, hungry dog, even if it were true on that
particular day (or year) in your life. I maintain it is the same in the
business world. Walk and talk like you've got the world by the cojones
and sure enough you will. It's
oftentimes about swagger.









